My wife and I have been active swingers for a few years now and we just love the lifestyle. We have loved checking out new swinger spots across the country including the Garden State. And that leads to the question, what is available for New Jersey swinger clubs and New Jersey swinger resorts?
In general, New Jersey is a great state to be a swinger in. There are a few New Jersey swinger clubs and even what I would consider a New Jersey swinger resort. In addition to these swinger spots, there are New Jersey swinger groups that host hotel events that give additional opportunities to play.
So let’s take a look at what is available for New Jersey swinger clubs and New Jersey swinger resorts. In addition, we will look at what is available for New Jersey swinger Groups. If you are a man that is new to the swinger lifestyle be sure to check out the Note to Male New Jersey Swingers section.
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New Jersey Swinger Clubs, Swinger Resorts, and Other Options
If you are looking for swinger lifestyle venues in New Jersey then you are in luck. New Jersey has all of these options. These swinger spots are mostly geared towards swinger couples but all accept single women and most accept single men.
The swinger lifestyle that these places promote is an open sexual relationship where couples and singles allow and encourage their partners to have sexual relations with others. If you go to this type of place, you are probably going to encounter nudity and sexual activity.
There are a couple of New Jersey swinger clubs. These are nightclubs that cater to the swinger crowd. Most are BYOB establishments that have playrooms for swinger fun.
There is one large swinger club that I classify as a New Jersey swinger resort due to the attached hotel. This place gives you the whole swinger experience. This is the type of experience that you will not find unless you go to the Florida swinger resorts or a big resort like Hedonism II.
A great alternative to swinger resorts or swinger clubs is the events that are put on by New Jersey swinger groups. These events can include hotel takeovers that can essentially turn a local hotel into a temporary swinger resort.
We will also go over some major online spots for Meeting Up With New Jersey Swingers. These are websites that New Jersey swingers can use to help make swinger connections at the clubs or on their own. These connections are essential to the swinger lifestyle.
New Jersey Swinger Clubs
When it comes to picking a New Jersey swinger club, you do have a few options. These swinger clubs have dedicated on-premise facilities. This means a permanent location that usually has a BYOB bar, dancefloor, adult playrooms, and other amenities.
These clubs are usually open on a regular basis and you can attend them on a regular basis. This allows you to get to know the regular crowd and can make it a more comfortable experience.
In addition to these clubs, be sure to check out clubs in neighboring New York, Delaware, and Pennsylvania.
Karizma Social Club
NJ-31, Glen Gardner,
NJ 08826
https://www.karizmasocialclub.com/
Karizma is a highly-rated New Jersey swinger club that has a loyal following. This 7,800 square-foot facility has multiple playrooms including private playrooms, semi-private play areas, several open playrooms/lounges, a pool table, beer pong, a dance floor, music, and a bar.
The bar is a BYOB bar where you bring your own alcohol that you turn in and they will serve it back to you with free mixers.
On-site clubs like this are great fun. The playrooms let you have all kinds of swinger fun play with new friends. If you don’t feel like playing yourselves, you can always watch others. This really can get the juices going with you and your partner.
Another, great feature of Karizma is that they offer a shuttle to some of the local hotels. This is a great feature so that you can actually enjoy the night without having to worry about transportation.
The club does require a membership in order to attend. You can apply for membership right on their website. Once your membership is approved, you can make reservations to attend events. You pay for your membership and event fees at the door (cash only).
Membership for couples is $60/year or $20/month. For single women, an annual membership is $20. For single men, an annual membership is $80. Single male memberships have SLS (SwingLifestyle) membership requirements.
Karizma is open on Fridays and Saturdays. Friday hours are 9 pm to 5 am. Saturday hours are 8 pm to 5 am.
Typical Friday event fees are $40 for couples, $60 for single men, and single women are free. Typical Saturday event fees are $40 for couples, single women are free and single men are generally not allowed.
Fridays and Saturdays have themed events. You can find a list of events on the Karizma website or on the club listing at SLS (SwingLifestyle).
Lacey’s PlayHouse
Brown Mills, NJ
732-510-5213
https://www.laceysplayhouse.com/
This is an on-premise swinger club. It is not a regular club/bar but is held on a regular basis. The club itself is relatively small 1500 square feet but they do have play areas. The facility is BYOB and is open to couples and single females only.
They also put on off-site takeover-type events that they list on their website and on SLS (SwingLifestyle).
You have to contact them through their website, text or SLS to RSVP and attend. You prepay for attendance through Venmo or another pay app. On the weekend we checked in, it was $80 for a couple to attend.
New Jersey Swinger Resorts
Amazingly, there is a New Jersey swinger resort. Some may consider Saints & Sinners a New Jersey swinger club but I consider it a resort because of the attached hotel and clothing-optional pool. These two items are hard to find north of Florida and make this place definitely worth checking out.
In addition to this New Jersey swinger resort, you can also check out some New Jersey nudist resorts. We have used these local nudist resorts to meet up with your swinger connections. Check out New Jersey Nude Beaches and Resorts for some local nudist options.
These nudist resorts have quite a different crowd from a swinger resort but some may find these spots of some use. Check out Naturist or Swinger Nude Resorts and Beaches for the difference between these types of places.
What we have done is meet up with other swingers at nudist resorts. You can still hang out in the nude at the hot tub and pool but you just can’t play there. You have to wait and have fun once you get back to your room. Your options to meet other swingers are severely limited but you can still have fun with friends.
We would often use these resorts to meet up with friends that we met online at swinger sites like SLS (SwingLifestyle). We would make new friends online and then do our first meeting with them at the nudist resorts.
Another option for you if you are seriously interested in checking out some real first-class swinger resorts, is for Connecticut swingers to grab a flight to Florida and check out the incredible Florida swinger resorts. These are the swinger resorts that we truly love.
Saints & Sinners
18 S Dr Martin Luther King Blvd,
Atlantic City, NJ 08401
1-800-960-4191
https://www.saintsandsinnersclubs.com/
For New Jersey swinger resorts, Saints & Sinners is your only and best option. This is more like a swinger club than a resort but the attached hotel gives you options that you basically do not find north of Florida. The clothing-optional pool and hotel are what sold me on classifying this as a swinger resort.
We absolutely love the swinger resort feel of the place. We are big fans of the pool. The clothing-optional pool is a great place to meet other couples and make connections. We have met more partners sitting naked in a pool than anywhere else.
Saints & Sinners is attached to the 30-room Surfside hotel. This allows you to visit the club portion and take advantage of the Saturday pool parties while staying overnight.
The on-site hotel rooms are a must for that relaxed resort feel. Your hotel room gives you a place to go if you meet a really interesting couple that you want to spend time with. It also gives you a place to go if you just want to spend time as a couple for a little bit.
Amenities at Saints & Sinners include two dance floors, two bars, stripper poles, a light and sound show, an outdoor deck, clothing optional pool, locker rooms, showers, private playrooms, open playrooms, and a lounge area.
They are open on Fridays from 9 pm to 3 am for couples, single males, and single females. The Friday admission is $50 for couples, $100 for single males, and $20 for single females.
They are open on Saturdays from 9 pm to 3 am for couples and single females only. The Friday admission is $100 for couples and $20 for single females.
There is also a Saturday pool party that runs from 11 am to 5 pm which is free for those staying at the hotel. For others it is $30 for couples, single women are free and single men are not allowed to attend.
In addition to the attendance fees, there is a membership fee that you have to pay. This fee is $50/year for couples, $20/year for single females, and $100/year for single men.
There can be a totally different vibe on the nights when there are single men as opposed to Saturdays when they are not allowed. Even though we usually don’t play with single men, my wife likes to put on a show for them. She is not alone in this attitude.
So if you go and stay Friday and Saturday night, you get to experience the resort in two different ways. The Friday is with the single men there and the Saturday is for couples and single women only. Both nights can be fun but different.
New Jersey Swinger Groups
A great alternative to swinger clubs and swinger resorts is New Jersey swinger groups. These groups do not have dedicated facilities but will often utilize private facilities or take over whole hotels or parts of hotels to put on events. These events can be pretty wild and a lot of fun.
If you are looking to connect with other swinger couples then these events can often be an easy way to connect with other couples actively looking to play in your area.
Samantha’s Stable
Monroeville, NJ
https://www.samanthasstable.com/
This is a New Jersey swinger group that specializes in connecting swinger couples with specific groups of single-swinger men. They specifically mention that this is for heterosexual men only.
Samantha’s Stable puts on events at local hotels utilizing multiple rooms. In order to see the list of upcoming events, you will need to join SLS (SwingLifestyle) which is basically a must if you are going to be active in the swinger lifestyle.
You can then use your SLS (SwingLifestyle) username to sign up for upcoming events.
If you are part of a couple and are looking to spice things up for the Mrs by bringing another man into the equation then Samantha’s Stable may be worth a shot.
Curvy and Fabulous Events
Hazlet, NJ
http://curvyandfabulous.com/
This is a fantastic New Jersey swinger group that specializes in events geared towards “Curvy, full figured, and BBW couples”. These are some of the hottest swinger couples out there. This group has hotel takeovers and events in the New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania areas.
These events can be an incredible opportunity to meet up with other swinger couples and enjoy a weekend. You usually get to use the hotel facilities and they set up all kinds of fun stuff like comedy shows, adult playrooms, and more for swinger fun.
This type of event is one of the best ways to meet up with another swinger couple for some swapping fun or even just some voyeurism. People at these events are fun to meet and really respect your boundaries.
Tickets for these events are very reasonable. You can usually get tickets for a Friday and Saturday event for around $80-$90 for a couple. Single-day tickets are even less expensive. This does not include your hotel room but they usually have special rates on those as well.
The Secret Society Of NY&NJ
Perth Amboy, NJ
https://thesecretsocietyof8.wixsite.com/website
Another New Jersey swinger group that teams up with clubs and other groups on hotel takeovers. Some of their events are in New York and some are in New Jersey.
Sign up through their website to receive information on events including hotel takeovers. Most events are listed on SLS (SwingLifestyle) so this is the best way to sign up and meet other members that are going to these events.
We have utilized SLS (SwingLifestyle) to connect with other couples attending hotel takeovers by the Secret Society of NY and NJ. These connections have led to some great swaps.
These hotel takeovers have playrooms and all amenities of many swinger resorts. These are really worth checking out.
MistyLuvBlu
Union Beach, NJ
https://sites.google.com/view/misty-blue/home
This is a New Jersey swinger group that puts on hotel events and private swinger parties. Listed hotel events take over an entire floor of the hotel and set up multiple adult playrooms for fun.
I have not personally attended any of their events but this type of event can be a lot of fun.
Meeting Up With New Jersey Swingers
There are a couple of online sites that New Jersey swingers use to meet up with other local swingers. These sites are SLS (SwingLifestyle) and AFF (Adult Friend Finder). We use these sites to meet the couples that we hook up with at the swinger clubs, swinger resorts, and sometimes just on our own.
SLS (SwingLifeStyle)
SwingLifeStyle.com
SLS is by far the biggest and most popular website for New Jersey swingers. This is the website where New Jersey swinger clubs and New Jersey swinger groups post all of their events. You can connect with other members that are going to these events ahead of time.
This website is free to join and check out but you will need to upgrade to use all of the messaging functions. SLS (SwingLifestyle) is a must for swingers that will be attending events and is the number one site I would recommend.
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is quite different than SLS (SwingLifestyle). It is more geared toward making individual connections with other swingers and not at meeting others at events or clubs. AFF users tend to post a lot more public pictures. We use AFF to set up one on one swinger dates outside of events.
Important Note To Male New Jersey Swingers
When my wife and I first started in the swinger lifestyle, we found all kinds of articles dealing with the fears and insecurities of women but very little for men. I found that with many swinger couples, the woman has the confidence and the swinger drive while the man has major worries that hold him back.
Erection Quality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Having fun in the swinger lifestyle is hard when you are worried about maintaining your erection. This was a problem that I had at one point. The libido was there and I wanted to perform but I could not get the erection that I needed.
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Penis Size and the Swinger Lifestyle
Like many men, I had always been worried about my penis size. When my wife wanted to get involved in the swinger lifestyle, my penis size anxiety increased.
Check out The Truth About Swinger Penis Size for information on this delicate subject. What is the average swinger’s penis size, does penis size matter to swingers, how to make your penis appear bigger, and how to make your penis bigger (yes, this is scientifically possible with a little catch).
The Swinger Inferiority Fear
This fear had a lot to do with the previous two issues but I was very worried that my wife would find me sexually inferior after dabbling in the swinger lifestyle. Would my jealousies and insecurities get in the way of our having a fun time?
Read Male Swinger Insecurities for the story of how I overcame these fears.